Life Still Goes On

This conversation came about because of all of the women that I know and those that they know have had a hysterectomy. I wanted this conversation because there is still a lot of myths and unanswered question that we have when we make this life changing decision. As we get older, our bodies began to change and many of the changes we do not want, but as we keep living we find ourselves in this cycle of life. More gray hair; in every place you can imagine, less hair in some other places. Wrinkles and moles appearing. Then one day you began to feel pain, everyday, all day.

Some women do not experience pain they just have a lot of blood loss during their menstrual cycle, which is embarrassing especially when you are out and IT shows up unexpectedly and now your clothes are destroyed.

After a visit to the doctor you are told that you have fibroids or cyst or your ovaries have become detached from the walls of your uterus. What? How did this happen? I am only in my 30’s or  40ish, I take care of myself, I eat right, I exercise and all of the above.

Where do fibroids come from? Why do so many young women develop endometriosis or andometriosis. The doctors still do not know but one thing for sure women are dealing with this problem everyday and your life can literally be put on hold while you are going through all of this pain.

I want you to discuss what happened to you. Answer a few questions and then tell your story so that other women, may have to make this decision can read your post and have a better understanding and different points of views about what the future may hold for them and what is going on with their bodies.

1. At what age did you began to have sexual intercourse?

2. Where you molested?

3. How many partners have you had in your life time, do not make a list, just round it off.

4. Did you have painful menstrual cycles at an early age?

5. How old were you when you had your first child?

6. How old were you when you had your first abortion?

7. How many abortions have you had?

8. How many miscarriages have you had?

9. After your hysterectomy, how long did you rest before returning to work?

10. How was your recovery?

11. After the birth of your children did you wait the entire 6 weeks before returning to sexual intercourse like the doctor ordered?

12. After your hysterectomy how long did you wait before returning to sexual intercourse?

13. Did you feel a since of loss?

14. Did you have bouts of depression?

15. Did you fees a sense of freedom instead of being tied to a tampon or a maxi pad?

16. Did your libido increase or decrease?

17. Did you have fibroids, if yes, how many?

Now tell us your story:

Think about it.  Mad Cow disease, Poisoned eggs, H1N1, HIV, Quit Smoking Drugs, The Blue Pills,

Man when you think about it, is it true that the people in power are trying to kill us all and bring the numbers down to 500,000?  Who will get chosen? How will they chose?

Did you know that when drug companies make these drugs they have a number of people that they expect to die?  They know how much they will pay out in lawsuits and they really know how much they will profit.  So if you are in the 100,000 people out of 3 million that die from these experimental drugs, so be it.  The drug companies made a killing, ( no pun intended) and you are either dead, crazy or need a new kidney.  How do you prepare when the people that you have elected are the ones out to get you?

That is like being a kid and you know at least twice a week you come home your crazy ass dad or mom is gonna kick your ass just for being there.  Where else would you go? And how do you prepare for an ass whoopin?  You know it is coming but when? what time is this fool coming home and should I leave or stay in my room? But you can’t because you have to eat and the bathroom is right by their bedroom door.

Is the world being set up?  Are we being killed off slowly and being kept hooked on drugs for one reason or another.

True Story:

My husband has been on my case forever about smoking.  Now I know I should quit. But when I walk outside and in 5 minutes I smell like outdoors from the fumes and everyting that is being pumped in the air and the stuff that I inhale how is that more dangerous then my three packs of cigarettes a week?  So he saw that I have a box with pills and patches to quit smoking hidden under the bed.  HE FINDS EVERYTHING.  But he cannot find the stuff I tell him to look for? Is that mental games he is playing with me.   So he says to me, ” why haven’t you used any of the stuff under the bed to help you quit smoking?” I ignored him and walked out of the room.  Two hours later, we are in the bed watching TV and a commercial came on about some pills to make you quit smoking.  He says, ” maybe you should try them”, again I ignored him.  so the commercial is about to end with this message: ” taking this drug may cause you; depression, kidney failure, hives, dry mouth, the urge to kill yourself, irritability, bowel problems, sexual problems, etc, etc, etc  the list went on for at least 1 minute.” 

We both said, DAMN!  at the same time, and he said forget that.  Keep smoking, you want me to go out and buy you a pack? How about two?  All that, just keep smoking them cigarettes at least all we have to deal with is possible lung cancer and not you jumping out the first window you come to or trying to kill me and the kids. 

OMG!!! We laughed so hard. and he has not mentioned it to me again.

Do you think there is a cure for all of these diseases?  Why will they continue to hold back the cures and allow many people to die and then fix the food so that we cannot get the proper nourishment that we need?

What is your take on all of this?

Are you loyal to your cell phone company?  Or is it the cell phone that you love?

If you buy your phone then you own it right? Therefore, shouldn’t we as consumers decide which company we want to place our coverage with? 

If I want an Iphone and want to place it with MetroPCS and pay on $50.00 per month. I should be able to choose.

What do you think?

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Is Proposition 8 Unconstitutional?   Is Gay Rights the same as Civil Rights?  

Are you for Gay Marriage or Against it? 

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Can a Gay relationship be compared to Racial Profiling?  Can Gay relationships be compared to being treated fairly based off the color of your skin?

What did he do? A crime, maybe he has a warrant or maybe……he was a young black man driving a nice car in a white neighborhood?

We are being stopped because we do not look AMERICAN?  What does AMERICAN LOOK LIKE?  Blond hair Blue eyes?  Sandy Brown Hair and hazel eyes?  Why does the world only see Caucasian people as being American? 

What about: American Indians, Chinese Americans, Japanese Americans, OOH YEAH, AFRIKAN AMERICANS, ITALIAN AMERICANS, MEXICAN AMERICANS…if we check our history books, wasn’t California and Arizona inhabited by Mexico long before the American Gold Rush?   Is it true that the Native Americans that are STILL, I mean STILL  sueing the American Government for stealing their land how man years ago?

Did he cross the border or was he actually born here?  Did he do something wrong to be escorted in handcuffs?

Look at this face.  What does his future hold?  So what should his parents and grandparents teach him;  how to behave so that he does not go to jail in 14 years or do they sit down and teach him about investments and how to create a financial portfolio?

Proposition 8 is about to go to the Supreme Court to decide to over turn the right to Gay Marriages.  How does this affect your life? Gay or Straight?  Can this be compared to Jim Crow or Slavery?  Why do white people that are gay, always use Jim Crow and Slavery as an example? 

If a gay man applies for the same job as a straight man and he is dressed as a man, he is hired based on his ability to do the job.  Not whom he has sex with.

If a black man goes and applies for the same job as a straight white man with the same credentials who will end up with the job?

Now if you are a woman dressed as a man acting as a man and you apply for the same job as the black man and you are more qualified who will get the job?

Now let’s push it.  If you are a gay white woman dressed as a woman and you are applying for the same job as the woman dressed as a man or the black man who will get that job?  Should where you live and work be determined by who you slept with last night?

Now look at your life as a heterosexual, what do you do so different than a homosexual couple?  Maybe you lay in your bed different, or cook your food different, maybe there is a gay grocery store that sell gay vegetables and mall that only sell gay clothes.  Oh I get it, maybe they have a Gay Platinum American Express Credit Card and they get low interest rates and you are jealous, Now that sounds very ridiculous or maybe they are two people in love that get up at 6:00 am and have a cup of coffee before rushing out the door to work, then do their job and sit in traffic just to get home and prepare dinner for the one that makes them smile all day long.  Get up on Sunday and go to church, maybe to the church that you attend and pay their tides on a regular basis; more than you do.  Then sit and watch those boring TV shows for the next hour, go to sleep with someone that they know has their back no matter what happens the next day.  

Do not talk about what the bible says; because I can go head to head with you. “DO NOT JUDGE OR YOU WILL BE JUDGED”,

” HOW CAN YOU TALK ABOUT THE SPECK IN YOUR NEIGHBORS EYE WHEN YOU HAVE A WHOLE TREE IN YOURS?” 

You are judging these people and that is not your job.  Leave the judging to the Creator.

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YALL    AIN’T   READY.

I am a woman, I am a wife, I am a mother and I have Issues.  I just need to talk and express myself.  

Like, isn’t it funny that everyone wants you to be a part of their little financial business but they never want to be a part of yours?  How many people have you asked to join you on an adventure to make money and there is never any support as a business partner or a customer, but as soon as they get involved in something the first thing they want to do is call you to come see their product.  Well people, I am tired. 

You join sites to help promote you business and the first thing they do is say oh yeah, mine is better.  Better for who? I invited you first and you never even looked at my site and now you want to tell me how much more I can make with your product. 

I had a product that was free, yes, free and no one joined.  I had a great online business that was only $6.00 and no one had ‘$6.00, but you want me to believe that your product that is going to cost me $99.00 to join and $29.00 a month is better that FREE? 

I posted “Blacks are still our slaves”, after reading the entire page you cannot help but to get upset about the article but you must agree that it is true.  I have been involved in the financial industry for about 10 years now and I have dealt with Blacks, Caucasian, Indian, Pakistan’s and Africans and I can truly say that we are what the article says.  NOT WILLING TO WORK TOGETHER.   I just need about 20 people in my circle that is business and family minded, that want to make some money, that is trustworthy.

I know a Punkass man, that called someone I know and said, ” Hey, my homeboy is looking for some drivers, do you know anyone?”  Instead of the two Punkass men passing on the number to get the necessary information, they wanted a fee.  Who the hell charges a fee to help get someone a job?  This is suppose to be your homeboy, you idiot.

I know another Black Man, so called business man that can never get to a meeting on time but want to be a business man and do not know his ass from from his left foot.  How do you be late to a telephone conference call that you set up?   He said that he had a true and real  investor and we had the product but he refused to pass on the information and get out of the way.  He knew nothing about the industry but wanted to run point.  He never verified his investor, he never had a signed agreement to get paid from this investor and he did not know the protocol and by the end of the conference call he had added up his share of money and left out the investor that he never verified.   How do you not want to pay the person who’s money you are using to make money?  Well the next day he kept calling, two days later he kept calling saying that we was holding up his deal,  we found out that this investor was three people deep from the actual account holder and the person on the account was in the dark.  She had a proof of funds letter for $$$$$ and that letter had been shopped and she knew nothing about the conference call or that her money was the focus point of a trade deal. 

It worked out, the investor became our client and the other idiots were well, still broke and still are clueless. 

You must be willing to work together and understand and be willing to stay in your lane.  If you do not know then just say that you do not know.  You must be willing to trust and be trustworthy.  Business must be handled first, all necessary paperwork must be signed and you position in the company must be clear.  If you are not good with handling the cash then stay out of the bank.  View the accounts and that is it.  If you are good at marketing your company then do that, do not try to write up the contracts.  Leave that to the Attorneys.  If you have a speech impediment, stop trying to mediate the conference calls.  It is that simple.  And if you are ugly, no you cannot be on the front of the website page.  We need customers, unless it is for charity.

Oh yeah, My Black is Beautiful.

Yes, I said it.  Pussy has been the downfall of countries, families, businesses and men.  Why is it that men cannot think past getting into the panties of the next one?  Men have fought and died over what lies between our legs.

If it is so powerful why are we considered the weaker sex?  Men have traded in their wives and children for a 15 minute sexual experience, so what if it lasted 45 minutes.  You lost everything that you claimed was near and dear to you.  I am trying so hard to keep it clean, but it is hard  and at the same time it is funny.  I heard a comedian say, ” I spent 9 months trying to get out of my mother’s pussy and I have spent the last 40 years trying to get back into one.” 

Put a price tag on it.  Why is it not legal by now?  The same one’s that vote not to legalize selling sex are the same one’s that spend tax dollars buying it and hiding it from their wives.   Oh, I know just like Marijuana, they cannot find a way to tax you for it yet.   Hell, Tiger just shelled out $750Million for cheating to his wife.  He paid the other ladies something while seeing them and then to keep them quiet. 

UGA Director Damon Evans has just joined the list of men caught cheating on their very beautiful wives.

President Bill Clinton, Morgan Freeman, Jesse James ( Sandra Bullock), Tiger Woods, Josh Gosselin(Kate + Eight),  Presidential Candidate, John Edwards, Hugh Grant, Jude Law, Kobe Bryant, Rick Fox, Shaquel O’neal, Michael Jordan; I can go on and on, but, you get my point.

Is it that, it is so hard to be monogomus or is it that they do not care?   Yes, I know women cheat too,  just as much as men do, but, I am talking about men today.  I need an honest answer from a cheating man.

You go home every night and crawl up under your wife and plead your love to her and thank her for everything that she does for you and that you are so happy and blessed that she is your wife.  But didn’t you just crawl out of some strange woman’s bed? Or weren’t you somewhere where you allowed some other woman to put your soldier in her mouth?  Or haven’t you been seeing the same woman for as long as you been married?   Come on….let’s be real.  If you are not going to be faithful then say so.

Is Pussy so powerful that you cannot bring your behind home?  Is Pussy so powerful that you have to lie to yourself and everyone around you and get your friends and family to join in on the lie.  Well, I am not lying to anyone for anyone.  If  I am asked I am going to tell so do not bring it around me.  Just be real with your spouse or girlfriend or boyfriend that you want variety, I am sure they want variety also.  Hell, yall doing it anyway, why not be real.

I had a conversation with an acquaintance of mine and after I finished talking to him I was so angry at the words that came out of his mouth.  And I know so many men out there think just like him and I have named all of you, “PunkAss Man”.

If you are planning on leaving your woman or wife never leave her with no money and no car and no where to live.  Whether she has your children or not.  You have already damaged her; so be a man.  I am going to say that it was, YOUR FAULT.   If you choose to leave her cashless then you are forcing her into the arms of another man that she may not want to be with, even if she cheated on you with him.  9 times out of 10, you sent her into to the arms of another man.

I have been on this earth for a long time and I have been in the streets just as long and I have three older brothers and plenty of uncles and cousins that are older than me.  The women in their lives cheated once they got sick and tired of their men cheating on them or many of them chose not to cheat they filed for divorce.  Either way, if this woman has been down with you, she deserves whatever you have or whatever you get.  Get here straight and then move on, otherwise she will be bitter and hard for the next man that WILL come along.

Otherwise, you are a punk, weak, selfish and you are not a man.  If you cannot afford to get her straight and you straight then, be a real man and stay home and FIX IT.  I truly believe Bro, that you are the problem.

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