I know most of you are probably saying; Dang, does she have anything else to talk about.  Yes, I do.  But I talk about cheating and I talk about relationships because that is what I hear all day.  My girlfriends talking about the guy they just met and how on the first date they went and before dinner was even served; the guys are already talking about how they can please them in the bed.  That is old and tired conversation.  Any woman that falls for that kind of conversation is shallow and lost.  Or they are talking about old boyfriends trying to get back in after they were caught cheating. 

I know for a fact….we are more than the creation between our legs and the design of our backsides.  Whatever flavor you want to spin on it it is all game and it is time women recognize game and make the men work for what they want.

Now, if you are cool with One Night Stands, sex on the first date, him seeing other women; then that is cool.  Don’t complain and  don’t get caught up on his soldier and want to change the rules of the game when you get serious and decide that you want a “relaationshiiip”.  (spelled wrong on purpose).

Ladies, sometimes it is the men that get sprung on the punany.  Notice I said, PUNANY, I did not say You.  Now he wants you all to himself,  he is “marking his territory”, YOUR PUNANY.   So he does everything and says everything right to get you down right comfortable and relaxed.  You’ve put distance between you and girls and your male friends; good, no more competition. 

Now the D O G shows up.  He is gone longer hours, not returning phone calls like he use to.  Get loud when you question his where abouts.  Now he is hanging out with the same male  friend all the time.  ”I’m with LFM, Me and LFM gonna hook up later, Me and LFM was hanging out real late last night”.  Who is LFM. (any friends name that will LIE FOR ME)

Ladies, do not get mad.  Start being unavailable.  Now you need a new friend.  Not necessarily to lie for you but to change your pace.  Men are hunters by nature and they are always on the prowl.  They get bored with easy prey.  If you made them chase you the first 3 months of your relationship then make him keep chasing you.

Until you have is Mind and Heart you are just a piece of ASS.  Plain and Simple.  How do I do that? Well, I am glad you asked.  First “to thyself be true”,  Know yourself first.  Get to know him and let him get to know you.  If you find that you are the teacher in the relationship, GET OUT.  You need a man that knows what he wants and where he is going.  A Plan.  His plan may have road blocks in the future but does he have a plan.  Is he trying to educate himself?  If he says, Man Shawty, I ain’t got no job right now and I got a baby mama,  RUN! 

Well, I don’t know everything and this, this right here, It’s Just My Advice.

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