Why Are You So Angry?
I read a lot of post on FaceBook and I see a lot of angry post. My question is why are you so angry?
What happened in your life that causes you to hold on to anger and make it your lover? For all especially women, how do you claim Jesus, and say I am saved or I am blessed or better yet, I am a christian but there is so much anger in your voice and your actions?
There is nothing in your story that you can tell me that many of us have not experienced in our personal life and we do not wake up everyday MAD AT THE WORLD.
Your Excuses: Positive Thought
1. My dad did not raise me 1. But someone did, you still here
2. We were poor 2. But you are able to change it today
3. I was raped when I was young 3. But you are alive today to get counseling
4. My man use to beat me 4. You made a choice to leave
5. I have 4 Kids by 4 different men 5. that is 4 child support checks to take care of all yall
6. I did not finish High School 6. If you are reading this, what is the problem finishing now.
7. I was a drug addict 7. WAS, is the key, what about today
8. My mom does not know who my father is 8. If you are alive, you know that you had one
See sometimes we have to be thankful for what is and not what was. Things change, people change we are not designed to remain the same everyday, that is why we go crazy. Our mind is working continuously and me must be willing to move. For all you Christians out there, from what I read in the BIBLE, Jesus was a man of action and so was GOD. In everything it was GO HERE, DO THIS, SEEK THIS PERSON, DO THIS THING. All action words. So how can you be still? Even in Donnie’s song, “Stand” that is an action word. So get off your ASS and do something about your anger. Confront the person that you think, believe or know hurt you and allow yourself to push past that experience in your life. Unless you like being in love with Anger. Anger is a emotion that we can control.
So work on your anger, being angry allows stupid decisions to be made. Being angry will drive your spouse away. If you say you are going to forgive then forgive. If you cannot forgive then allow that person to move on because you are the one with the problem. I recently watched, “A Thin Line Between Love And Hate…, Martin Lawrence and Regina King. He asked Regina if she trusted him, and she said Yes, I trust you to do exactly what you are gonna do.” Great response. If you know your partner why are you trying to change them? She did not cook when you met her. He hung out with the boys every Friday night. You had female friends and she had male friends. He was a cheater while you dated him, but now he has taken care of your every need and treated you like a queen. She shopped all the time and spent all her extra money but she maintained good credit and had her own home. Your lover or friend or spouse is the same person they were designed to be and you loved them for it, if you cannot work it out then do not leave and make anger your best friend. Confront it and let it go so that you can go into your next relationship free.
I have been hurt many times by men and women but I do not live my life based off of those past relationships otherwise I do not allow myself the possibility to have new ones. I should be bitter but I was delivered from bitterness and anger along time ago.
So love, love with passion, love with laughter and love with freedom. LET IT GO.
