Is Your Mate Cheating: Do you really want to know?
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Hi doctorZ, I need your help. I am a beautiful woman and I know it. I make good money at my job but for some reason the only men that seem to want to date me are married men.
I just got out of a marriage 3 years ago and I will never get married again. I got so tired of being alone I started seeing a man near my place of work. We do not work together but our offices are about 3 blocks from each other.
He is married, he just kept coming at me and he is fine as hell. I finally gave in and went on a date with him and now I am in trouble. I have really fallen for him. It has been almost a year now and it works for me cause he ain’t all up on me. He goes home to his wife. My kids don’t know he married and they have a better relationship with him then their own father. Christmas is here and I do not want to be alone but I already know.
What should I do. I have fallen really hard for this man and he has always told me that he is never leaving his wife. I cannot say that i feel stupid. The day i went on the date I already knew. that is why I left my husband. Ain’t that funny. i gave up my marriage because he cheated on me alot. now i am doing it. Mostly out of anger. someone did it to me.
What should I do? I mean how do I walk away without trouble?
And Miss Malone,
I read your profile, now if you come off to people the way that you describe yourself, I see why you have trouble with men. And you are so wrong on many different levels.
1. with your kids
2. being the other woman
3. dating a married man
you ask me what should you do and then you answered your own question. How do you walk away?
Put one foot in front of the other and keep it moving. What will you do when you are confronted by his wife?
You are worried about Christmas and being alone? I think you have bigger worries than that.
Ms. t,
the doctor is right. the man is not leaving. as long as you keep calling him and seeing him. He just gonna keep coming. I know. been there done it and have not stopped doing it.
Yall ladies make it too easy. Yall just desparate and we are greedy. My wife aint going nowhere she got it too easy. I work she dont. yea i mess up but she aint going nowhere it if means she gotta get off her lazy a$$ and get a JOB.
so women like you.. I come and see once a week or two or three times a month and yall happy. throw you a few dollars and you will be eagar to see me when I call.
Man that is cold. Zeeh. that hit me hard. Now if feel like a real hoe. I felt bad before but now I feel like pure doodoo.
somebody said hoe? Ask and you shall receive. I got an opening T.
I cannot respond no better than Zeeman did. Yall ladies set yourselves up and yall want a man so bad yall believe anything or accept anything just to say. “I got a Man.”
Ha, I will be your man. I am like the army. I need a few good women. You sound like you could be my bottom. Hold it down for a brother, keep my sheep in check.
Holla Back.
I cannot believe you guys. sounds like zeeh and theFakez are trying to do some recruiting.
the lady has issues yall just dogs.
Ms. T. Like the Doctor said put two feet in front of the other and walk. I being on both sides of the fence and neither one was fun. I confronted the woman once and dealt with the man afterwards. I made the decision that it was better to take her to court than to get into any physical or verbal confrontations. The conviction? Moral Purpitude. Bad Judgement. It is on her record. Him? Well we are still married and after marraige counceling we are straight. Find your own man or all you will get are duds. Firecrackers with no spark. Tires with no air. Dogs with no barks. shall I keep going? Meaning all you are getting is a wet behind and an empty soul.
Hey doctorz,
You remember me? how you doing? I am better, I just got home from rehab, I did two weeks and I feel great.
I took your advice and signed in.
Yes, I remember you. How could I forget you had a very interesting story. I am glad that you went for help. but two weeks worry me. There needs to be 30 days of in house treatment.
have you relapsed?
Yeah Man, I did. I got home and got stressed out and stupid. i spent alot of money. they told me not to go back home but i did.
i have to wait 30 days before I can go back.
zeeh,
all i got for you is…….??????????
How old are you man?
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